#BrokenHeartedGirl: How My DADDY ISSUES F*cked Up My Relationships… And STILL DO

As I navigated through life, I never thought my relationships with Franklin and Fisher would affect my relationships with other men.

I began to date and at 25 years old, I met an older police officer named *Aldon and I fell in love with him. This man treated me like no one ever had before, and I loved every minute of it. There I was at 25, thinking I had found the man of my dreams. Those dreams turned into a motherfucking nightmare. Back then, Twitter was popping, and that’s how I found out the REAL. One day, Aldon got into a wreck in his squad car, and a random woman tagged him in a tweet about his car wreck saying “I’m happy my baby is safe”! I saw the tweet and I blew his phone up ALL night! After getting no answer, I mentioned her in a tweet, which read:

“Hey love, we may have something in common”.

She asked me to call her and she told me Aldon played stepdad to her two kids, and they had been together for 8 years. Yes, I was the side chick. I had become my mother. It hurt, but I couldn’t leave because I loved him. I took him back, and he moved his things into my apartment (well, some of his things because I don’t know one man with only 4 outfits). We became closer, and I found out I was pregnant.

On Christmas morning, we laid across the bed planning our day, and in the middle of our conversation, Aldon’s mom called. She asked him to pick up his grandmother. So, Aldon and I planned to get together later once he was done dropping his grandmother off at his mom’s house.

But, you that “women’s intuition” shit? That bullshit breaks our face every time. It made me get out of my bed, and pray for a sign from God (and God usually gives me billboards every single time). So, I decided to go to Aldon’s mom’s home.

I pulled up to Aldon’s mom’s home and there she was: the woman from Twitter. They stood at Aldon’s car as helped Aldon get Christmas gifts for her children out of his car. The woman from twitter, her family and Aldon’s family all were over Aldon’s mom’s house. And here I am, again looking like the side chick, watching their happy little family.

I wanted to stomp a hole in Aldon’s ass! Aldon spotted me and then got in the car with me. He sat there, telling me he only wanted to be with me, and how much he loved me. Fuming at the sight of the side-chick ruining her family moment, Aldon’s girlfriend ran to the side of my car. She pulled me out of my car by my hair, and we fought like Triple H and Steve Austin in a cage match. Hearing the WWE rumble happening outside, Aldon’s and her relatives ran outside. Aldon’s mother ran to my car to assist his girlfriend in whopping my ass. Aldon’s mother pinned my arms onto my car as the punched me in the face.

The love of my life stood there while his mother held me up against my own car so his girlfriend could hit me. I just wanted to get a hold of her by myself so bad. After Aldon’s family was able to separate us, I ran behind the girlfriend as she walked back up towards the house. When I was just about to hit her back, guess who runs behind me and throws the KO punch that knocks me out? HER MOTHERFUCKING BROTHER.

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2 Comments

  1. Girl!!! If someone handed me this script and told me it was fiction, I would have believed it. I can’t believe this is something you went through! Did y’all ever talk again? About the pregnancy?

  2. I was crying with a bald up face once I made it to page 3! Them dam officers ain’t never been shit! They always did everything but protect and serve! U are so strong baby girl. U rock! Hell I admire u. I’m proud that God allowed u to face your fear n part ways with it! Abandonment was your fear! It’s clear to see that u now love Icis! That means all that you endured from your past is helping build who u are now! You are smart you are beautiful you are unique very creative and not to mention talentive! Now that u have been through to get too honey u better keep climbing the mountain of success. U can only move up from here! It’s ok not to forget your past… But it’s a weight lifted when you move on from it.. Love ya #Heavy

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