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SEX
There’s no time limit on sex, but if you’re looking for a relationship, you shouldn’t be jumping into bed with a man who hasn’t given you “the title” yet. There isn’t a guy walking on this earth who had it easy when it comes to me. You will not be getting my shit in a week or two, boo. The thrill is gone after that! I know there are women who just want to have fun, but even if you’re not a relationship girl, you at least need to be able to call on him when you need him. He needs to be offering more than just dick, even if that’s all you want. Don’t sleep with men who won’t even take you to the ice cream truck that’s parked in front of your house. If you’re not going to make him wait for it, make him put a little work in for it! Make him care about you as a person before you introduce him to your kitty, baby girl.
And when the time comes, don’t play shy when you guys finally have sex. Shy sex equals bad sex and you don’t want to add another worthless number under your belt. Trust me.
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Having Too Much Pride
Screaming “I don’t need a man” won’t get you a man, boo! Bragging about how much wealth you’ve acquired on your own without the help of a man is only setting a trap for a fuckboy to come use your ass for all those coins you claim to have. A real man doesn’t care if you are independent or not. Real men are raised to take care of their women, anyway. You don’t get a day in Black History Month for being the first African American woman who has her own! Honey, we are everywhere! Some of you are just that: independent. Bring something to the table you bought besides a check. Yes, you got your own money, but you lack sex appeal, have no personality, bad hygiene, miserable, mean, clueless, and nagging. Being perfect on paper doesn’t mean you’re perfect in person.
Love this!!!!! I took some notes to study like a midterm coming up
Really good points. So many females make these mistakes and need to scale back and approach things differently.
Good Job Icis!!!!