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Working Too Hard to Get Him
Love, I cannot say this enough: YOU are the catch! Stop going into dating thinking you have to win him over. Ms. Girl, he needs to win you over. He needs to convince you to give him a piece of a chance. We have power, so act like it, boo. It’s a privilege for him to be sucking the air you’re breathing. Anytime you let a guy see you’re working overtime to prove yourself worthy, he’ll pick up on it like a dog picks up on fear. That never ends well.
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Losing yourself in a man
We try to so hard to keep the relationship going and end up putting the relationship before ourselves. Everything shouldn’t be what he wants and needs. He doesn’t like your friends because they keep you out all night, so you cut them off. He doesn’t like that you and your sister talk on the phone all day, so you stopped calling her. He prefers girls with long hair, so you grew your hair out. When is it going to be about you? Don’t make him your whole world! Keep a life outside of him, honey. As Beyoncé said, “you have to have your own life before you become somebody’s wife”.
When we deal with men, we sometimes go about things the wrong way. I’ve seen these problems in myself, as well as other women, so I felt comfortable writing this article. Everything I mentioned in this article is only for the greater good of us. I honestly want to see women happier and being loved by someone who’s worthy. I want us to WIN and when I see areas we’re lacking in, I speak on them!
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Love this!!!!! I took some notes to study like a midterm coming up
Really good points. So many females make these mistakes and need to scale back and approach things differently.
Good Job Icis!!!!